Boy or Girl? Which do you prefer?

Its baby season! Well at least for me. Recently my husband and I held a small get together with both sides of our family, in white picnic theme at one of our favorite park – Taman Tasik Perdana. The main agenda of the gathering was to reveal the gender of the baby. If you have…

We survived the KL city!

Like many living in big cities, most of the population are migrates from the outskirt of the country or even abroad.  Including yours truly. I came from slightly northern part of the country. Ipoh mali talak sombong (Coming from Ipoh we are not snooty, so they say).  This city, this Kuala Lumpur, is the city…

Stop morning sickness before it starts

I have been off the grid for quiet sometimes and one main reason was because I was dealing with morning sickness. Alhamdulillah we are blessed with the wonderful news not too long ago that we are expecting our second child. But then reality haunt me all over again. Let me start by saying my family…

Dating.Success: Aging with passion

Is it me or a great conversation can do wonder to your mind, body and soul? I had interesting conversation with a colleague earlier today. Amazed me enough to write just a little bit for ILT Dating.Success story. He is almost in his 60s, yes doubled my age, but he is extremely looking forward to his…

Work life balance of a career mum?

How do you want your kids to look at you? Loving mother? Career driven? All of the above? I often wonder as I nursed my little girl to sleep. What’s playing on her mind when she thinks of me? I am a full time working mum and after work I assist on a small family…

KL Parks Edition

Today’s post is something closer to home and on a lighter subject. Literally. Working and living in KL, I find it like my second home. My first darling is still Ipoh tho where I grew up in. I am a big park fan. The greens, the flower, the activities like riding rental bikes, strolling and…

Start 2017 by removing toxic!

When the air is filled with enthusiasm and hope, you know it’s the start of a new year. Feed on that! I am always and I say this often, am amazed with people. How their stories, journey, failure and success can take you to a whole new dimension. If you really study these people be…

Raising 4 girls

In Malay community there is this saying that goes ‘Raising a herd of cows is easier than raising a daughter’.  Don’t over read the meaning. Raising boys are equally hard. No, girls are not cows. It is basically, raising girls has its set of challenges. And my parents has 4 of them! I have to…

Make life matter by celebrating just because

Growing up I have always been a bubbly one. I have so many ups in life and similarly also went through many downs from experiencing feeling helpless, isolated, being rejected, waves of feeling LOST and miserable and painfully grieving deaths. I know, its rather vague but those feelings were real nevertheless. I have always been…

7 advises to younger self

You know time flies right? Like really fast. The next thing you realize a decade passed by and you begin to wonder what have you accomplished all these while. At a certain age, there are a few things many advised that they wished they did when they were much younger. I find reading and talking…

5 morning routine of successful people

If you go online and watch Youtube or read on inspiring people, you would definitely come across morning routine of successful people. They could be someone who has billionaire’s status or someone who is just undeniably good at their field. You would realize, many do not jump straight into Facebook, Instagram, email, shower then work….